Sex

Despite the enormous amount of sexual material and imagery we are exposed to in our culture, we live in a climate of sexual misinformation and over-stimulation. Individuals and couples come to us for assistance with numerous concerns about sexuality. We provide education, openness, and encouragement. Counseling is a safe and private place to explore your history and desires, and to expand your sexual repertoire. We are non-judgmental, and help people who have a wide array of sexual orientations and preferences.

Our services are of course absolutely private and confidential, so we would not disclose real stories of clients' lives, but here are some typical reasons people seek us out:

"I've never been good at having orgasms. I have them very infrequently, and it's frustrating for both me and my partner."

"I want to get more adventurous with sex, but my partner doesn't. What can we do? We have a good relationship otherwise, but I'm not sure I can live with this for the rest of my life."

"When my partner wants sex and I don't, we always seem to end up fighting. By now it's gotten to be such a pattern that I'm not sure either of us knows what we want anymore, and we are mad about all kinds of other things besides."

"My fantasy life worries me in some ways. The things I think about to get turned on don't mesh with my feelings about who I am. Can I change this? Is it just the way I'm wired?"

"It was so good between us, and we were excited about the baby. Now she's tired all the time and doesn't even want me to touch her. What can I do? Is life ever going to get back to the way it was?"

"I have never spoken to my partner about what I want sexually. It's embarrassing to admit it, but it's gotten pretty dull after all these years. How do other people handle this?"

How can we help you to improve your sex life? Click here for information on the approach we use and the kinds of results we have helped others accomplish.